What planet in a chart determines your compatibility?

[Charles]

What planet in a chart determines your compatibility?

Discussion

[StellaGraphia]

There is no single planet. Synastry is really complex. You need to just ignore all the stuff you’re seeing out there on tik tok or instagram or other such sources. And an aspect that works great for one couple, may be terrible for another, because it’s not just the synastry aspects, it’s w hat each natal planet’s own aspects are as well. It’s three charts’ sets of aspects that have to be considered. Each person’s natal and then also the synastry. If you really want to get a better understanding, then try this:

[Synastry: The Astrology of Relationship](http://theastrologypodcast.com/2018/07/28/synastry-the-astrology-of-relationships/)

[lilturtlequeef]

i agree, synastry is complex. in my opinion i think moon aspecting other person’s venus shows a nice bond as well as compatible mercuries (communication is key), and mars.

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Thanks. I’m a Gemini with a Sagittarius moon and I find my compatibility to be completely opposite then what I read. For example, my wife is a Capricorn with Capricorn moon, and most of my friends tend to be scorpio, cancer or Virgo. My Mars is Capricorn and mercury is cancer, and I am right on the Gemini / cancer cusp day.