Why can’t I receive messages from my loved one?

[AdiaLex8]

I have posted about the suicide of a loved one before, I didn’t get much the first time or connected fully I feel like I stayed the same. I have not received a response or information compared to other people, I see that some mediums mention things, they write long paragraphs, they talk about the feelings they had, their death, the bond, words for their people, memories, messages, signs, their almost final thoughts or how they were. Why can’t I get an answer? Why could that be?. I wonder if he sees me, if he can feel my pain, my love or if he came to have an idea of how much I loved him. I feel like every time all I do is bump into a wall or a closed door. I’m not upset I just feel very sad and hopeless.

Discussion

[AnaAlesea]

It has a lot to do with the mindset in which you are in while trying to receive the messages. Our grief and self loathing gets in the way of the type of messages spirit can pass to us. Once we cross over (no matter how we passed over or who we were in the human world when we passed away) we return to an energetic state, the means is a high vibrational frequency. Just like sound waves have higher frequencies and lower ones (actually precisely like that) so does energy. The human world conditions us to operate in lower vibrational energies ( emotions/mindsets are influenced by energy, in fact emotions is energy in motion) also the human world never teaches us the true essence of who we are, what kind of energy we are made of or what kind of power we truly yield. The human world has created a multitude of divisions and religions and regions of the world that have different beliefs and values and that is all purposefully done to keep the majority of people operating in those lower vibration energies/emotions/mindsets. Because of that, when someone we care for passes away and they return to soul state the way they communicate is not going to be the same way humans communicate. They communicate through high vibrational energies, like love, satisfaction, gratitude and happiness ( many more but we all know how to decipher energy to some degree because we know what feels good and what doesn’t, for the most part.) when trying to communicate with a spirit, if we the living human are stuck in a loop of grief the messages spirit will send for you are going to be about finding a way to uplift yourself so that they can make contact with you/us the living in more profound ways. Being in grief and depression puts us into a fog, we tend to miss a lot of what is happening in our surroundings and environment because we are consumed with the thoughts in our head, but spirit will communicate through our environment and surrounding directly, and we will miss it until we can find a way to view things with clarity again. This takes a lot of work because there are a lot of negative things in a beautiful space, negative people negative experience, negative perceptions and more. Our souls journey is to come to earth experience the highs and lows of human existence and evolve in some way, as we cross over we help those who hold us in their hearts and minds evolve as souls in human form. We have to experience death to understand this cycle. Does that mean that it doesn’t hurt , of course not. We are human we experience life through the full spectrum of emotions, as a soul we have access to that spectrum of energy but our purest nature is to reside in the higher vibration/frequency of the spectrum of emotions. Because of this, spirit will always push us to have experiences that bring out those higher vibrations in our human form. As we practice that through observation of our reality we start to see how truly intertwined spirit is with us and with our world. We are souls in bodies, souls all come from the same source so we truly are all one, when someone passes we keep them close to us in heart and mind and that’s how we keep the essence of who they were during the lifetime we lived with them (most of the time we live multiple lifetimes with the people in our lives) alive. Your loved one has been trying to get you into a place where you can see their presence since the moment they crossed over. You asked if they know how much you love them, and of course they do. You are communicating that love on a constant basis, but they can’t sit with you in grief to feel that love, they feel that love and understand your grief but they exist on a higher dimensional scale than grief which is why the message you want to hear can’t be made clear to you until you are in the right state of mind to receive them. A few things have come to me while passing this text over, you speak to their photos alot and that is a great practice, but you are missing the signs of their presence by dismissing them because you see the evidence of their presence and then immediately doubt that what you felt or saw was from them. You are absolutely worthy of having the contact and connection that you have with them. Nothing is coincidence, when you saw that bird at the right moment that was spirit, when you hear your song at random but perfect moments that spirit, when you feel guided to speak to someone or do something that’s all guided by spirit.

They are always with you, but you said it yourself you feel hopeless, that is a recipe for disaster when wanting to make contact with non physical energies/spirits. Is it natural to feel that way, absolutely. But it’s only natural because of the world we live in that has conditioned us in this way. All the love you have for him he has for you tenfold, he needs that sparkle back in your heart/soul/eyes. The same one you had that day when you shared your feelings with them for one of the first times. Spirit doesn’t have the capacity to change us, they can only guide us. It’s up to us to follow the signs and evidence of their presence and to strengthen our own understanding of self so that as we use our minds and bodies to connect they can do what needs to be done to guide us properly

[Inpixelsalready]

Stay strong,I hope this post gets noticed by a medium here.

[SimplyRedd333]

Hi sweetheart ✨🧿
As a medium myself I can tell you it’s not an exact science and not all suicide victims come forward automatically. I had to work with a couple of spirits that killed themselves and sometimes they don’t want to be dead and have regret so they linger in those human feelings despite not being a part of this plane anymore, some are ashamed, there are many reasons. Also, when looking for signs outside of a reading our emotions can sometimes block things and we won’t see them because we are expecting something different. Be patient sweetheart ✨🧿 I’m quite sure they will come through eventually just understand suicide is not only traumatic for those left behind but also the spirit because while the were here they were tortured and sometimes get lost in those emotions and need help finding their way. I hope this explanation helps bring some clarity 🧿✨

[visitorpassingby]

You might need a one on one session with a trusted medium either on the internet through an app or in your town, look for mediums on the web and notice their reviews. Always look at the reviews and if they have a facebook page even better

[jadeli10]

Because you’re either not ready to hear what they have to say or they’re waiting for the right time. You feeling emotions like that, its not gonna make a good connection of line. We mediums depend on your energy because we tap into it. And if we tap into your energy while you’re a mess, you won’t get clear messages. So I suggest you wait until you are more calmer. Trust the when the time is right, it’ll be worth the wait. Don’t rush it.

[PSI_Readings]

You can receive them, which doesn’t mean that they have a duty to inform you. There’s nothing wrong with you, you just have to respect their desire to speak up or not.