Will they be okay? Trying to save them from a bad home.

[Trent]

Will they be okay? Trying to save them from a bad home.

Discussion

[serenwipiti]

Define “okay”.

Even if you are able to remove them from their current living situation, these girls are going to have to cope (perhaps for the rest of their lives) with the trauma of parental neglect and abuse.

They are going to need careful attention and psychological support in the coming years (even if at surface level they appear ok, and say they are “fine”).

This is going to be a tough battle, it’s only beginning.

The birth parent(s) will see this as an attack on their ego. I can’t say the outcome, just that this is going to be rough for everyone.

Your hard work and dedication will mean the world to these kids. Good on you for doing the right thing and taking action. Don’t give up.

[bellapio_angelicstar]

The girl in the pink dress needs more help she can be prone to aggressiveness ( in the long run ) and needs attention lord of attention in terms of inner child healing. I see a counsellor hand over a bear to her a teddy bear toy brown bear and she clings on to it like she needs her attachments as a child to be healed inner child to be addressed and healed and to teach forgiveness it’s real work there otherwise she will grow up angry and unforgiving.. right now is too subtle to notice that but it’s there carried on from an angry mother.

The girl on front left i see mental abuse but she is too young to process what exactly hapens except it all goes over head but i see some energy in her head that makes her different( abusive father ?? And she is too young to even call it abusive and understand it as abusive ) and the one on righ i see sexual abuse I see teenage male around her Insee physical violence as well around the girl on right shaking and throwing off and such. I think they are too young right now to even talk about or understand some things that happened. They cannot fully process it and it is humiliating for them to talk about things. But it’s important to allow an environment where they can openly express how they feel and what they went through and to not feel shame and to allow that timing for then to express as well without be forced to express that will ease healing for them.

I would say love and lots of love and understanding and friendship for the girls is the way to help the grow into better human beings.

I am always open to talk you can pm.me and if you give me their first names we can talk more in private and i will guide you now to work with them so they can grow up wonderfully in the long run ..

I hope this helps thanks

[RicottaPuffs]

I do feel that gaining custody is going to be a battle. They need a lot of support.

They do not even know what abuse and neglect are, since, it is their norm. Mom is going to be the biggest challenge. She is going to threaten and act out, over this. I hope you will be able to distance these girls geographically.

I wish you the best and I do agree that they need to get out of there. It will not be easy. There is going to be anger and resistance. For the girls, there will be relief and confusion. The child who goes for help, will have acted just in time. She will provide the evidence that gets them to you.

I am so sorry this is happening to them.

I feel you will do what you can, to guarantee they will have professional support and a lot of patience and love.

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[vittoriaangel]

I sense one will escape in one way or form to get help example a police officer and seek attention and help. Whoever they are with is verbally abusive and angry

[courtvs]

I’m really new at this but their energy is really strong, bright and powerful. The middle child is standing out to me that will be the one having the hardest time.

[TheSaltyTarot]

Could I ask what’s going on?