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You don’t need to ruminate on why they treated you the way they did.
updated 3 years, 3 months ago 1 Member · 31 Replies
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I remember reading an old “Dennis the Menace” comic where, Dennis (the mischievous kid of the neighbourhood) and his friend Joey meet up with Mrs. Wilson who gives them a bunch of cookies.
Joey says “I wonder what we did to deserve these amazing cookies, doesn’t she know how bad we are?” And Dennis says: “Mrs. Wilson gives us cookies not because of who we are, but because of who she is.”
Thanks for sharing this post u/tomatopotatotomato and for reminding me to be more like Mrs. Wilson
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And when we inevitably still sometimes do, it’s important for us to remember that as empaths, healers, psychics, mediums, or anyone who is likewise attuned, that the road to healing is a literal roller coaster.
I can’t tell you how many times I thought that I had moved on, cut ties, gone non-contact, Focused on my own self, etc. and still ended up back in the land of questioning myself.
And as folks that are intending to work on enlightenment, that is a very healthy thing to do. Ultimately it shows great strength to want to know your part in things or how you can improve in the future. But we cannot let it consume us in guilt and shame.
Which is particularly hard because those in our lives who have harmed us do for many reasons, but almost all of it is essentially aimed at dimming out light and draining our energy through guilt and shame. Which we do not need to allow.
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I LOVE THIS POST, IT’S MY NEW ANTHEM.
????FROG????OF????NOT????GIVING????A????FUCK????WOO????
Sorry, I don’t normally type in all caps, this post is just very invigorating lol.
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I needed to hear that today
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Thank you so much for this!! Trouble is, those who treat others poorly, cant even see the negative effect their actions have on others ????
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I like the frog
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Currently in a situation were I needed to read/hear this as a reminder.
Mate bless your spiritual gangster soul for this.
May balance, harmony, infinite joys & endless blessings find you always! -
Thank you for this post. My last few days have been consumed by thoughts of a person who did treat me badly and I’ve been constantly thinking of what I could do to fix it. And this post has reminded me why I don’t need to worry about them. I won’t let that shadow follow me anymore. Thank you again.
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Did you just hear the conversation I had with my sister? Both of our ex’s are very toxic mine being very physically abusive. I’m struggling fully letting him go because I don’t know if he’ll fully let me go. So this was a huge post for me to see, thank you.
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Wow I love this and your timing in Aquarius season is spot on.
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This resonates a lot with me today.
Thank you
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I wish I could stop blaming myself.
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Nailed it. I was struggling with that constantly and then suddenly I decided to just give up and not give a shit any more but to love me and get mine. He is unacceptable and disgusting. I have been trying to polish a turd while God was polishing me. I still have spasms of confusion and a loyal co dependence but he can have his garbage mouth and die with all of his toys.. even his masochistic submissive lover or slave or whatever it is. He is a sociopathic pathetic fat
Dank Ass hole that nothing but shit spews out of and I’m done. -
Thank you ~ *waves to frog of ngaf*
Any other advice about stopping self-victimization? Going through a tough one now. Victim of a long-con kind of thing. I will admit that I was naive and have learned one or two solid life lessons from being played by this subtle succubus aka neighbor down the hall. I’d like advice on protection and releasing both of us from any agreements or contracts etc
