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    What are your emotional needs and how do you tend to them?

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     heather_violet123 updated 1 year, 7 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
  • sliceyournipple

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    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Don’t jump to conclusions and assume ill intent on our part, even if (*especially* if) we say something stupid or seemingly implying negativity. Don’t impose expectations on us to do things a certain way. I think big picture/high level, and that doesn’t always translate to me doing things or thinking about things the way you think I should. Don’t assume your understandings or ways of thinking/doing things are automatically superior just because they’re the norm. I’m willing to come around to almost anything as long as you’re equally willing to and patient enough to think and talk about it with me with an open mind.

    I tend to my emotions by philosophizing, exploring different ideas/perspectives and resisting any pressure to view things as “concrete” (I do some despairing and sulking and low self esteem shit too but I blame scorp rising/cancer mars/scorp Venus for that 😬). We’re barely evolved ape brained idiots that like to shoot each other, so stop acting like your ways of being are so “right” and important. None of us truly know anything, we don’t even know why we’re here, so we might as well start laughing and have fun and love each other while we can.

  • add_chicken_wing

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    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    I have a need for new experiences and to be inspired by life. I can’t stand feeling static. Always something should be happening and this something should be useful for whatever I’m trying to achieve at the moment. I think this pairs up very well with my cap sun/rising and my venus/mars in aquarius!

  • elizabeth_schauer

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    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    My Sagittarius Moon is my chart leader. I have to keep my mind busy and occupied, I’m also someone who feels the need to explore/learn. I like to make jokes, have fun, attend events, travel, road trip, visit museums and memorials, and read. When I’m stuck at home or unable to keep myself busy, I find myself feeling down. I also like to use humor to bond with people or make a bad situation a little lighter. However I’m not someone to piss off. The only way to describe that is I can get “firey”. I usually cool down by walking away or going for a drive.

  • orarian8

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    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Extremely out-of-bounds Sag Moon in 4th house here. I also have Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in 4th in Placidus but they move to 5th in whole sign.

    I’m a Cancer Sun, so my Moon is extra important / integrated into my sense of self. And the fact that it’s out-of-bounds gives it more intensity, IMO.

    I’m a fairly sensitive soul due to the Cancer, but super philosophical as well and once I have a few minutes to calm down, philosophizing about my emotions comes extremely naturally and is my way of processing them.

    In the heat of an argument, I can be overly blunt and say things I don’t really mean, but it does not happen often. I have a Leo Mars in the 12 house, so it takes a LOT to make me angry and I will avoid conflict over little things until I get really mad and roar. But that is super rare and only happens if I feel someone has been walking all over me for a longgg time.

    The rest of the time I am very patient with others (not necessarily myself). And perhaps too empathetic because of the Cancer but also because of my ability to analyze my own emotions philosophically, which means I then also analyze other’s treatment of me through the same lense, making me a bit too understanding and less likely to get angry by mistreatments (until they pile up).

    I’m very big picture but my Virgo rising makes me also very detail-oriented, so I can see macro and micro, but the macro is necessary for me to feel fulfilled. Highly detailed people without the ability to see the big picture can definitely leave my Sag moon feeling drained.

    I used to struggle with impulsivity and getting bored easily, but I think my Saturn return stabilized that a bit.

    I still love adventure! I don’t think that will ever change.

    Unsurprisingly, I’ve moved an INSANE amount of times in my life. I’ve lived in 5 cities in the US, and 5 cities in 3 foreign countries, and have changed houses/apartments multiple times in each place. I still live abroad and don’t know if I’ll ever live in the US again.

    When I was in my late teens and most of my 20s, my Sag vibe was really dominant and I never slowed down. I was constantly traveling, meeting new people, partying, learning, moving, etc.significantly more than what’s considered normal during those years. I would also disconnect from my feelings- I felt like my emotional side would slow me down and I just wanted to focus on fun, positivity, growth, adventure etc. Luckily, I’ve grown into my Cancer side and am learning to really embrace that part of myself.

    Like many millennials, I have Saturn, Neptune, Uranus in Cap so those have been very grounding as well in good and bad ways. My heart wishes I didn’t have Cap or Virgo energy in my life, but my brain knows I would be WAY too wild without it.

    Even now that I am more in touch with these other energies, my core emotional needs to feel the most like myself include thinking philosophically, adventure, travel, meeting people, laughing/having fun, and learning.

  • snappa870

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Emotional needs- doing stuff together

  • SquiddleSnaps

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Honestly I have no idea what I need. I have many emotions and I have extreme difficulty dealing with them so I bury it. I have a little “manic” day about once a month where I just go wild and then it’s back to locking it up. I’ve tried many ways of expressing my emotions and communicating but it just doesn’t seem to work.

  • Healthy_Throat_6846

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Idk and idk

  • patienceparse

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Not having to explain myself to anyone for any reason

  • United-Rooster-7929

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    6h sag moon
    So many barriers to loving someone else, starting with myself and being honest with my health and my
    Needs. Maybe one day I’ll find what I truly
    Need

  • WishThinker

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    my cancer is in 9th house, and my mars is like on top of my moon (which is like on top of my lot of fortune)

    I find deep study and hyperfocus, and thinking big-picture long term are a need and a highly regulating activity I feel drawn to. when I am locked in anxiety, philosophizing is where I find myself hiding lol.

    I also have moved a LOT in my youth, and now in my early thirties I’ve been living in the same apartment for almost 3 years and it is a TRIP. Nowadays instead of moving I rearrange my furniture monthly lol. was always jumping jobs too, now jumping school programs (student for life!!!!)

    I am not a very consistent person, I have 80 hobbies and they are all valid lol even the ones I only do for 3 weeks out of every year. those 3 weeks are important too!!

    with mars on my moon, and aries in 6th scorpio 1st, I am *aware* that being more physically active and engaged would/could be very emotionally regulating- but i dont wannooooo. so jury is out right now lol

  • Mx_Ember

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Sag sun here, married to a Sag moon… keeping an eye out 👀

  • ll–Red–ll

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Peacefulness; don’t know why. But that is something that I’ve always wanted.
    Aries Sun/Rising, Sag moon

  • 345stayinalive

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    All I can say is I have one sag moon super close to me and they are just joyful, loyal, and HAVE to do what they want (they’re also an Aries sun)

    BUT the other two that I have litterally dated are fucking psychopaths and one was a diagnosed NPD abusive crazy rapist psycho legit true crime vibes, and the other one was suspected of murder/ wrongful death so also true crime vibes.

    The bad two that I know both needed people admiration and unwavering loyalty and couldn’t be alone but also couldn’t not be on an adventure

    And the good one also can’t not be on some sort of adventure but that’s usually partying or camping or something more positive then the shady shit the other two got up to.

    However I a genuine believe of ‘psycopaths aren’t allowed starsigns’ so if your a sag moon and this triggers you into thinking weather your a psycho or not don’t worry your not, your just super firey and I actually love sag moons. They’re the best.

    I believe starsigns’ give us certain energies and sags get strength and adventure and sunshine, I just had to vent BC I have trauma surrounding those two ex’s lol

  • coopershmiff

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    Knowing I am free, to do what I want, any old time.

  • Illustrious-Test4826

    Guest
    October 2, 2022 at 3:35 am

    I’m a cap sun with a lot of water in my chart. My sag moon is an outlier. I need a lot of attunement and consideration, but also the space to do my own thing. Spaciousness, I need lots of spaciousness and flexibility. Bc I don’t always know what I need and figuring that out can be moment by moment. Still figuring out how to best tend to them specifically, but it usually involves a lot of alone time—though I don’t think it comes from the sag moon.

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