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I lost my son July 21, 2020. One week exactly from his 21st birthday. I have spent the last 6 months in anguish, pain, suffering..I feel his loss to my core. I want to feel that he is ok and on the other side, but my brain plays these games. Maybe it is my mind playing games. Maybe I feel him with me. Maybe he leaves me signs. Maybe it is wishful thinking from a mother than can’t accept her son’s fate. I have other children but since my son’s Death, I can’t move forward. I am stuck in this endless pain…physical, emotional pain. Nothing else matters. Only my son, that is gone. How do I move on? How do I find actual comfort that he is ok? How do I control the primitive response that my child needs my help?
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I lost my son and I feel lost in the mess of life.
updated 3 years ago 1 Member · 21 Replies
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. He is always with you, he is ok. You will be strong and ok.
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Grief counseling. It is ok to feel pain, but it is not ok to be stuck in it. It´s gonna be an evolution journey, psychological and spiritual, takes time and effort. I´m truly sorry for your loss.
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I’m so sorry for your loss – your loss as a mother, and for others who have experienced, or ARE going through this. Your son won’t have left you, his spirit will very, very likely be near you and often, maybe even all the time. Your feelings as a mother are obviously natural, and as you describe – the natural thing is to want to help him. Think for a moment about those signs you think that you may have had from him, and the feeling that he is near. When people we love pass on, it is not uncommon for their spirit to reach out to us because they still love us. Often their spirit still needs us as much as we need them! It sounds like you have felt that presence, and don’t shrug it off as being your imagination. Your bond as mother and son won’t break because your son has passed on. Your son’s spirit won’t ever die, and in this way, you can stay close to him, as he still is to you. Talk to him, tell him about your day, ask him about his too, he will be being well looked after and guided and not at all alone. Ask him for signs, but keep your eyes and ears out for them, as they can turn up literally anywhere. Listen to your own intuition, your own senses and you’ll know when you feel him close.
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not sure if this helps….. but my moms two friends both lost their sons to murder. they both have moved on reasonably but it takes time. also, one of them gets visitations in her dreams and the son tells her he’s okay where he is, he likes where he is and that he wants her to move on. all souls eventually will find peace. if you’re getting signs that means your son is still with you in spirit
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https://bahaiteachings.org/how-the-world-beyond-influences-this-world/
https://bahaiteachings.org/can-we-communicate-with-our-loved-ones-who-have-passed-on/
Feel at peace, he is with you and communicating with you. Here are two articles specifically on what you are dealing with. The site has many such articles that will help you. They will tell you all that you need and be a great comfort for you.
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