Questions For People With 7th House Placements

[TravelTings]

Hi everyone!!

I think it will be interesting to ask 7th House people questions about their placements here, since this is the house of projection and of relating to others. So how well are you owning your 7th House energies, and how do they play out in your relationships (romance, friendships & business partners)? This includes the Nodes, too, not just the planets.

1. What 7th House placements do you have?

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

Discussion

[ThaleiaFantasy]

Saturn in 7th. At 29 years of age, combined I have been in a relationship in all of five (5) months, with as many as one (1) person. ✌️

[juicyfruit924]

I have Uranus and Neptune in my 7th house with Neptune being almost conjunct to my DSC. I hate it here.

Jk but Neptune on the descendant is fucking struggle. I feel like I don’t know who my partners are anymore once I’ve been with them for long enough but then I think critically and realize they are still the same, there’s nothing mysterious, I’m creating a problem in my head. So then I’m like fuck, I don’t think I know who *I* am anymore. It’s confusing and sometimes I feel like I’m not capable of existing within a long term relationship which makes me sad. I have been a victim of not seeing my partners for who they are and it’s gotten me really hurt and abused. I don’t have an answer to most of your questions because the very nature of how my 7th house is set up makes it hard for me to see myself or others very clearly.

[Professional_Trip344]

Saturn and Mercury in 7th.

Loneliness, confusion, and unrequited passions. That’s it so far.

[theifty]

1. 7th House Sun in Taurus with mercury and south node there.
2. Taurus ruling 7H kinda says to me that I’m attracted to people that help me, provide me with food, and that’s also the way I like to give love. Sun here means that I develop my personality via my relationships. I seem to grow more in relationships, and i make my debut thru my partner because Leo rules 10H (she’s always introduced me to work opportunities or friends)Mercury here means I like to learn about people and develop relationships thru 1 on 1 socialization (not really group)

3. The people I meet are usually very dedicated and stubborn in a committed sense (super monogamous, and serious). My partners are usually attractive.

4. My love language is very Taurus. I like to shower my partner with gifts. I like to be seen as dependable. I’m very committed and super stubborn.

5. No

6. I like a connection with a pretty face. Mental stimulation is a bonus (maybe that’s the mercury?)

[EuphoricToe1]

My 7H is ruled by Aquarius, and I’ve got my Moon and Saturn there, both conjunct my DC within a degree. They’re both in opposition to my Chiron, which is conjunct my AC within a degree, and both sextiling my 5H Venus in Sagittarius within a degree as well. I have a night chart.

I usually feel like the oddball in my relationships, and am attracted to/attract other oddballs in all my relationships. One of my biggest needs in my close relationships is to feel understood, and the emotional security and comfort that comes from that is an absolute must. I was never good at casual relationships or hookups- it was either “we’re in this for life” or “I no longer want anything to do with you.” I loathed dating and the honeymoon phase of romantic relationships- skip to the part where we can be “alone together,” please! I can definitely be aloof and distant but, with my close relationships, that doesn’t affect how I feel about them. The five people I would consider to be best friends of mine, we only talk maybe once every few weeks/months. I learned quickly that “excitement and adventure” in my relationships (including friendships) was way too draining for me. I far more value the closeness that comes with being able to just be together without feeling the need to do things together.

[clandlek]

Leo Sun in 7th house conjunct North Node. I am not loud and outgoing as typically expected for Leo. However, my entire life even as a kid with best friends and into my adult life with romantic relationships, I have ALWAYS found the loudest person to be my partner! My husband Leo ascendant is conjunct my Leo descendant.

[rmtal]

I am interested in what can you say about 7th House Moon, especially conjunct descendant.

[Nativelili]

Cap stellium Neptune, Uranus and Venus!

2.I love Capricorn women and they are attracted to me. My husband has cap placements since it’s generational. I have dated many Pisces men, sun and moon. I have attracted a lot of Aquarius moon men. Venus I would just say I easily attract people.

3. I like Uranus traits because it excited me. Neptune makes me feel like I just don’t see people clearly.

4. The energy plays out with Uranus- I got eloped. I’ve asked my husband for an open marriage. He wasn’t going for it lol. Neptune + Venus makes me a certified lover girl I would say. I like seeing the best in people but it can be a downfall just not seeing people for who they actually are. In relationships in the past if it’s not passionate, constant change and exciting I get bored. I love romance.

5. Nope not at all. I have many layers and certain people bring them out. I think I surprise people after they get to know me. Since I’m a cancer rising I come off shy at first.

6. I don’t even know

[Thr0wawaayyyy22]

1. In whole signs, I have Mars retrograde in Aries. I have a 29* ascendant so in Placidus its in the 6th and my 7th house is empty. Mars is trine venus and sextile jupiter in less than three degree orbs.

2. I’m very attracted to passionate people but hate confrontation. All my relationships have been incredibly romantic and keep the spark even years into the relationships. The guy I was most in love with was Aries sun, second two Aries moon.

3. I feel like I get bored easily in relationships so it keeps my standards high. I also really prefer if they take the lead and let me nurture the stability so it makes a good combination.

4. I’m really good at balancing the high energy but still down for the spontaneity and excitement. Like I’m very go with the flow and generally date exciting people who want to do everything.

5. Aries and Mars get a lot of hate for some reason.

6. Passion, excitement, and matched energy.

[sofiacarolina]

1. Aquarius 7h with saturn in aquarius in it
2. Aquarius is my fav sign. I’ve mostly dated caps (saturn) and aquarians (my uranus is also in cap)
3. I love the uniqueness and intelligence of aquarians. I dislike their emotional detachment
4. I’m extremely eccentric myself and relate a lot to aquarian energy. I’m not commitment phobic or emotionally detached but I do need my space and alone time. I’m a very loyal and committed partner (saturn) often to my own detriment
5. Nope. I welcome criticism and feedback bc it’s an opportunity to be introspective and more self aware, even if I ultimately may disagree w them
6. Romantically: Attraction, honesty, understanding/acceptance, communication, mental stimulation, fun, and intensity
Platonically: Understanding/acceptance, honesty, communication, mental stimulation, loyalty

[MyEveningTrousers]

7th house Aquarius no planets…it ain’t pretty

[nornling]

1. 7th house Capricorn Moon

2. My partner has their Saturn conjunct their Capricorn Ascendant. Plus I’ve always admired Capricorn energy and have lots of prominent Capricorns in my life.

3. Hardworking and reliable! People you can trust not to sit on their ass and watch others struggle alone. Plus I personally lose track of time a lot and this sort of person is always there with a reminder.

4. I think I’m helpful in a crisis and reliable to those close to me. I am also very aware of my tendency to process emotions privately, only informing my loved ones of my conclusions later.

5. People think I’m rude and intimidating often, though not when they get to know me. I am surprised every time and try in vain to figure out whether I did anything wrong.

6. A relationship isn’t a relationship to me without trust and stability.

[cracker-please]

1. Mars and Pluto in Scorpio. They conjunct each other and both sextile my Capricorn Venus and Neptune, and square my Leo Moon.

2. I’m very attracted to what those placements represent (evolution, passion, protectiveness, privacy, loyalty, intensity). I’ve been *very* involved with people who have this energy. It draws me in.

3. The passion and loyalty I feel from their very strong emotions. They really make me feel something. I don’t really hate anything about these traits in others. Even though I’ve been through a lot of abusive relationships, because I really learned a lot about myself and other people from them. Lessons that were much needed were learned, you know?

4. I’m excellent at sensing the various ways in which I can subtly influence people. No no I won’t discuss what kind of best friend I am because honestly for me I’m a lot more Piscean (11th house) when it comes to general friendships. But when it comes to family, my spouse..I’m passionate and loyal and it feels like the world is just me and them. Nobody else. I’m loyal, I’m focused, I’m someone that everyone wants to talk to and be with.

5. Yes, definitely. I don’t always *see* it in myself.

6. This is a complicated question. I guess loyalty, sincerity, a certain amount of obsession/control. And at the same time..personal space. To process, to deal. I want moments to be alone but I don’t want to feel like I’m alone, adrift and aimless.

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1. I have Neptune(rx) in the 7th house ruled by Jupiter.

2. Neptune touches a lot in my chart and I would consider myself very Neptunian but, in particular with my relationships with people, I find that I’m constantly wanting to learn from the actions of others in order to seek the truth about the universe. Like why are we here and why are we the way we are? Not just on a general, philosophical level but I love really understanding the ins and outs of individuals on a micro level as well. Probably why I’m so attracted to astrology because I’m always referring to it as the fabric of our reality and that fabric is intimately intertwined with people and I absolutely LOVE reading it :).

3. My 7th house energy IN other people? I don’t know if I’ve personally known another person with Neptune in the 7th house (that I’m aware of) or have known someone long enough to see how this manifests.

4. I think Neptune retrograde is different that Neptune direct in that I can see right through people and can understand who they are and what their intentions are. Neptune is square my Venus in Pisces though so I do allow myself to run away with the fantasy of who a person *could* be to me but always ready for the disappointment of reality XD I’m not kidding myself but also not going to let myself end a perfectly unhealthy relationship if I can somehow squeeze some magic out of it. This mostly applies romantically. With any other relationships I don’t put up with any bullshit whatsoever. I’m the kind of person who does love a good philosophical discussion and, even better, any topic of the “woo woo” variety. I’m the “weird” friend with lots of beliefs and interests and obsessions that revolve around the spiritual and the mystical. As long as my friends love me for who I am I will love them back.

5. I don’t offend easily and I’m well aware of what people think Neptune does to a person in relationships XD

6. Someone who’s wise, open to the fact that reality is what we make it, has an interest in everything that expands the mind and our existence, who’s goofy and witty and brings light to darkness, doesn’t take shit from anyone, wants to explore and seek out truth and makes an effort to humble themselves when the situation calls for it, values wisdom, wit and friendship over lust and looks and the appropriate amount of money to have to live a “good” life. Wants to help people.

[ms_sn00ks]

1. 7th house in Pisces with Jupiter
2. *Romantic, idealistic, sensitive* from Pisces. *Generous, supportive, open-minded* from Jupiter. I’m very attracted to these qualities, but depends where they play out. I used to date someone with a majority of Pisces energy, and we did **not** mesh well. My current partner has the same placement (Jupiter in 7th house), but has more fixed energy (where I have literally zero) and I couldn’t be happier; so I think I enjoy the energy Jupiter brings.
3. In other people with this energy, I love how fun-loving it could be. Whether fantasizing for a mental escape or discussing philosophical concepts, I love a good conversation discussing the abstract side of life. And what I hate? My fire and mutable dominant chart hates when sensitivity does not allow certain people to go “with the flow” about certain things.
4. In my personal relationships, I’ve been told that they appreciate the level of “emotional intelligence” I have. In reality, I think more people shouldn’t be as hard on themselves and feel emotions through. Sometimes they don’t make sense, but you have to nurture your emotions. They’re valid, whether illogical or immature.
5. Pisces negative traits being naive and overthinking, and Jupiter being reckless.. yeah, I get offended because most of the time I am *already aware of these negative qualities I have.* Just let me live!! lol
6. As mentioned in #1 – supportive, open-minded, sensitive. But, with fixed energies. I am fire and air dominant, so I really appreciate someone who can bring me back down to reality while being considerate and sensitive. My current partner has the perfect balance of these traits, being able to ground me while not criticizing or belittling me.