Questions For People With 7th House Placements

[TravelTings]

Hi everyone!!

I think it will be interesting to ask 7th House people questions about their placements here, since this is the house of projection and of relating to others. So how well are you owning your 7th House energies, and how do they play out in your relationships (romance, friendships & business partners)? This includes the Nodes, too, not just the planets.

1. What 7th House placements do you have?

2. How attracted are you to the traits that these placements represent (like the sign that rules the planet or that the placement is in)? How involved have you been with people with this energy?

3. What do you love the most about your 7th House energy in other people? What do you hate the most about these traits in others?

4. How do you see yourself acting out the energy of your 7th House in your relations with other people? What kind of partner or best friend are you?

5. Do you ever get surprised, confused, or offended if someone points out the traits of your 7th House placement, particularly the negative ones?

6. What are you looking for the most in a close relationship?

Discussion

[Ok-Banana-4326]

1) 7th house in Aries Saturn (sun in sag, moon Pisces, and Libra rising)

2) every man in my life is an Aries sun. Father, two uncles, aunt, grandfather, 3 cousins, and THEN every sexual and romantic partner has also been an Aries…

3) Idk how to answer some of the other bc I haven’t thought about it tbh.

4) I feel like I’m aggressive to myself in an emotional way. Instead of lashing out at someone I walk away and deal with it internally, which causes emotional aggression…. If that makes sense.

5) I am surprised bc I think I am a very laid back person though I’m supposed to be aggressive

6) I’m looking for adventure, existing together, and being goofy with someone.

[Brilliant-Stand35]

7th house placements
Venus and Pluto in Sagittarius

I have no idea what that means and would love for someone to tell me!

[sk8squad]

I have sun, moon and N node in my 7th house in Taurus.

Relationship have been a big part of my life. I have had 3 long term relationships with 3 very aloof men( this could be Aquarius in my 4th – I have a lot of Aquarius around me in general). I always seem to have a love hate relationship with my partners, however, I’m not sure if that is to do with other placements. No matter how bad things get I always hold onto my idealistic view of the partnership. Overall I prefer to be in a relationship, but I can be without.

[labmem007]

I have my 7th house in Aries with my Jupiter there in retrograde
I have dated and attract so many Pisces and Sagittarius placements 😭 although I honestly I’m not attracted to Aries placements as much but that might be due to the fact that it’s also my 8th house but a lot of my friends have both sag and Pisces placements as well
I think my 7th house energy allows me to find partners easily but can also easily create unbalanced relationships and mostly by me doing too much but I like that it allows me to also acknowledge the freedom and space I require to function
I think I am a passionate and caring friend whose very loyal and I try my very best, I’m very direct which is what I associate with aries energy in the first place
I don’t really get surprised or anything cause I’m well aware of my faults
I look for honest and flexibility and reliability

[[deleted]]

Pluto and Chiron in my Sag 7H. I’ve never had a healthy relationship in my life and I end up attracting a lot of darker people. I don’t have a problem attracting them, but a problem keeping them. I go through intense transformations and periods of growth after intense relationships. Not to mention my 10H Venus and 10H Mercury both square my Pluto and Chiron, plus Pluto in conjunction with Chiron. I definitely crave emotional intimacy and closeness.

[Many_Ad_3645]

Aquarius in the 7th w/ Neptune & Uranus. I am attracted to ‘weird’ people, like the more unique you’re the more you pull me in . I am a hopeless romantic but I’m attracted to emotionally unavailable people. I daydream about my perfect lover and every guy I find interest in has to have some sort of resemblance or similarity to the dream guy in my mind lol! I guess I’m idealistic I think it’s the Neptune. I swear up and down that I want someone transparent but I am super attracted to mysterious people 🙄. I admire people for their hidden talents or plights. I can think you’re cute if you’re a janitor (this is just an example) and then if you tell me you volunteer at an animal shelter on your free time or you like to get tarot readings I will fall in love with you. Im big on being wow’d lol and that’s my problem too I make relationships that aren’t that meaningful based off potential so if you do ONE thing shady or red flaggish I have the ability to poof you out of my mind lol! However although I get disappointed often and early my expectations are really high for my future husband, and i believe i still have a try love out there. I’m so unreasonable & sporadic but people truly love me for it 🤣 I’m only 22 (my 11th house yr) so the older I get I hope to be able to figure out what I truly need from my relationships where it be family, friends, and lovers. Also, Saturn is doing its thang in my 7th house right now (I learned a lot of lessons the hard way) but I’m thankful to the divine that she will be moving to my 8th house next year. I hope Saturn treats me well because I will be also starting my 12th protection yr n I know the 8 & 12th house is nothing to play with. Wish Me Luck !

[GreenBubbleMilkTae]

Taurus 7th house, no planets. Just South Node directly conjunct DC.

My ruler is Venus in 5th house Pisces whole sign, conjunct 5th house Pisces Saturn, square Sag Jupiter Rx in 2nd house, opposite Virgo Chiron Rx in 11th house and trine Cancer Moon in 9th house whole sign.

I tend to be attracted to Capricorn, Pisces or Leo men.

I’m 27 and have never dated. Kind of just gave up on the idea of being in a relationship because my crushes are always one-sided and no one ever expresses interest.

I tend to just watch romcoms like kdramas instead and imagine myself in the place of the first lead female. The guys are so caring, it’s attractive. But then I get to real life and see how little guys give in effort. The strong hookup culture is unattractive. I have traditional values and I refuse to date a guy who does not take dating seriously.

[Senior_Reading2013]

I’m not a 7th house. But my ex has 7th house stellium (4 planets), he was so co dependent and enjoy companionship so much. he was dependent on his friends and would spend so much time with them. he’d be hurt if he feels neglected by others

[creamaporium]

Hii! 7th house stellium here.

1. I have Uranus, and Neptune in Capricorn & Mercury in Aquarius.
2. This is a very interesting question to ponder. I have a Capricorn sun in the 6th house that conjuncts with Neptune and Uranus. I’ve found that for the most part, my Capricorn Capricorn relationships are always filled with humor & understanding. For example my sister, dad, and I share the same moon and sun. We are all on the same spectrum when it comes to our strange goofy ways.
Now the Aqua Mercury… this is the crappy placement. I’ve found that usually it’s the Aqua suns that are like the “snakes in the garden”, per se. I find it interesting my Aqua relationships always appear to be one thing but turn out another way. Although there is so much commonality, there is something that makes 95% of them rogue. Having Mercury in the 7th house makes a lot of people talk about the native tho.
3. I love the humor… hate the evasiveness.
4. I mean… as any other cap would. With humor, and practicality. Loyalty is big as well. It’s been hard to learn how to set boundaries with people like this though. & it seems people really like to talk about me.
5. No, I don’t get surprised. I take it like a compliment. I’m the type of Cap that is more on the relaxed & humorous side of life. It makes me feel very good when people can see Neptune and Uranus… (there is a joke somewhere there).
The only shitty thing is the enemies. People hate me for no reason. It genuinely used to confuse me but now it makes more sense.
6. In a close relationship I’m looking for loyalty & levelheadedness. I expect clear communication, & no BS.

Now when it comes to romance, it’s funny. I realized I have only ever been with people who are my Venus placement.

[Illustrious_Tart_258]

I have Venus and black moon lillith in the 7H of Pisces. I’m looking for my best friend in a relationship. Looks don’t matter but it’s a plus. I’m interested in faithfulness, honestly, and loyalty. I oddly am very attracted to Scorpio sun men. And I married a Scorpio man.

Commitment is hard for me. It’s scary. It’s not that I want to be a ho, so to speak. I just don’t like putting all my eggs in one basket and relationships do feel restrictive and destructive.

[No_Shelter4769]

My Libra moon is in the 7th house

[oceangirl93]

Venus in the 7th house in Capricorn, as well as my descendant. Would love to hear interpretations

[ida482]

1.( I’m a Leo rising, my seventh house is ruled by Aquarius but also has Pisces (I use placidius). I have my Uranus there ♒️, at 27 degrees. My my Neptune at 10 degrees and my moon at 4 degrees of ♓️.

2. I attract a lot of Pisces placements into my life and I usually become very involved in those relationships, to the point of detriment. And I attract people who exhibit the good and bad of Pisces. I am also LGBT (Aquarius). I have a really hard time with relationships. I can go a very long time with out friends then have a lot. As for my Neptune, I’ve gotten deceived by this people a lot.all of my relationships have been difficult AF. And uranus is like the little devil telling me shit isn’t right and to move. When stuff doesn’t feel right I want to take action and immediately fix it

[yerbuddowntheroad]

7th house; south node, Gemini.

Karmic relationships (south node) with people who are Gemini in nature. Also people from early education I noticed.

Feel I may posses traits of the 7th house with the south node there. Skill in mediation and finding balance in relationship.

However I believe the past habits such as being gossipy about my partner, dual natured and shallow in relationships may be influenced by this placement too. Also codepedancy.

[brodiejayy]

1. Mercury, Sun, Saturn, Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn with the latter 4 conjunct in a stellium.

2. Finding it hard to answer this question because there’s so many planets there…never unpacked my own 7H really. I do find I’m attracted to people who take life a little seriously – I need a romantic partner who understands responsibility, has a stable career and income, hard worker…all very Saturnian things I suppose. I find friends somewhat the same, I don’t particularly get along with people who I find don’t share the same goals as me.

3. As I said, I really love others who share the same need for some kind of serious career, hard workers…I dislike immaturity. I sound very boring, I promise I have a sense of humour and silliness 😂 but I’m just very attracted to men who have their life together. What I dislike is when people take that too far – workaholics, too obsessed with money, people who are very serious and no sense of humour, people who are too structured…haha, conflicting!

4. Again, I’ve struggled to unpack my own 7H energy. What I do know is that I’ve had extremely poor luck in matters relating to a romantic partner. Never had a relationship, extremely picky in dating. I think saturn is delaying this for me (I also have moon/Venus in Aquarius so more saturn ruling and delaying). I am picky with men. I have high standards. I have no interest in casual flings or sex, I only am interested in dating people who are looking to commit. I prefer older more mature men. Neptune potentially has also made me maybe a little delusional about what I expect a happy relationship to be…I’m a daydreamer, and a love rat. I dream of my perfect man and desire it overwhelmingly. I have never thought about Uranus in there, but perhaps it could indicate the fact I am just not likely to have a ‘traditional’ relationship or love life. In regards to friendships, I am somewhat the same just less precisely…I don’t have a large group of friends/acquaintances. I have a small number of very close friends. I don’t do casual friendships haha.

5. Nope, I have studied my 7H a lot and asked for help and am very used to the ‘yes, saturn is indeed causing a lot of trouble and delays for you’ comments haha. Accepted, and now I’m trying to work on how I can see him in a positive light (hard).

6. I feel like I’ll repeat myself here, I feel like I’ve kind of answered it in my other answers. I need connection, a best friend, trust, loyalty, stability, passion…and lots of laughs ☺️